The Consolation Of Job's Three Friends
Job 2:11-13 NKJV
[11] Now when Job’s three friends heard of all this adversity that had come upon him, each one came from his own place—Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite, and Zophar the Naamathite. For they had made an appointment together to come and mourn with him, and to comfort him. [12] And when they raised their eyes from afar, and did not recognize him, they lifted their voices and wept; and each one tore his robe and sprinkled dust on his head toward heaven. [13] So they sat down with him on the ground seven days and seven nights, and no one spoke a word to him, for they saw that his grief was very great.
For seven days and seven nights, they sat on the ground with Job and did not speak a single word. This was an act of profound, silent solidarity. They recognized that Job's grief was so great that words would have been inadequate and perhaps even an intrusion. Their presence alone was the consolation, a powerful demonstration of their empathy and a willingness to simply sit with their friend in his pain.
According to Poole, " Seven days and seven nights was the usual time of mourning for the dead, Gen 50:10; 1Sa 31:13, and therefore proper both for Job’s children, who were dead, and for Job himself, who was in a manner dead whilst he lived.” After this, the begins a discussion in the next thirty five chapters trying to place the reason for these infirmities.
Morgan says that " Job suffered more at the hands of these friends ultimately than by the attacks of the foe, yet some recognition must be made of the goodness of the men.”
Bradley finally submits that, " We leave Job and his friends seated in silence. There is calm around them, but we feel that the air is heavy, and that there is a tempest in the sky. We shall hear the storm burst and the thunder roll when next we meet.” How do you respond to others in their crises? How do you evaluate what happens to others? Sometimes being silent may speak loads of sympathy than hurrying to talk. Someone says that " Silence is the genius of fools and one of the virtues of the wise." How do you react to others in trouble? Good morning.